-choices-

before i kick start my entry, i will emphasize that this entry isn't all about me. it is just general thoughts, experiences from my friends & loved ones & possibly my own experiences a bit here & there.

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it's amazing how you realize that things are thrown right in yr face. where you have to make choices, be it for the better or for worse, be it the right choice or the wrong one, be it to make you happier or sad.

are choices made voluntarily or is it forced on to one? it's weird how people know for a fact that things will never be the same nor will it be better, but they choose to believe what they believe; that things will get better & that there is room for improvement. it is obvious that one does not want to face the fact or is just not prepared to take that big change in their life although knowing that somehow rather they'll be happier in just a matter of time. Mr/ms. Hopeful is just to hopeful for better things, better ways, better lifestyle but is not willing to take that big jump. although one knows that by wishing & hoping for others to make things right, wishing & hoping that others will not spoil their plan in life by waiting for them to make the right move might not happen, but still.... it is left unsaid.

is ignorance really bliss? or do people ignore because they choose to? or do they ignore because they're trying to adapt to a situation? or are they trying to adapt to a situation that's ignorant? confusing? i know! :)

is there a right or wrong choice in life? hmm... well i wouldn't claim that. i've always believed that there is never a right nor wrong choice. it is how you justify that choice. unfortunately some people end up justifying a choice wrongly & hence it's claimed to be the "wrong choice"!

sometimes i don't know if people are simply ignorant or just plain dumb. wanting to only make "that" move once the one he/she loves is already out the door & no where to be seen? only to feel the pinch once he/she realizes that the person he/she loves is no longer theirs? well my friend, it would then be a bit TOO late! some people decide by themself the pace that they would like to go at to make a person happy. but he/she doesn't realize that when it comes to a person's happiness, he/she shouldn't decide to move at his/hers own comfortable pace. -choices, yet again-

the common phrase goes: "time waits for no man"

therefore emma's phrase would go : "hence no man should for 'that' time." =)

sorry for the long entry. as you know, i'm long winded at my thoughts & sometimes (more like MOST of the time) confusing. =)

love,
emma